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End this exercise by writing, “I do not choose to have this experience. I found this book to be very enlightening and have many highlighted sections to re-read when necessary.

In the Meantime: Finding Yourself and the Love You Want by Iyanla Vanzant

It is bu and compassionate in its approach. I n the M eantime. With this understanding comes the realization that we cannot make people love us the way we want them to love us. As an empowerment specialist, Spiritual Life Counselor, and ordained minister, she lectures and facilitates workshops nationally with a mission to assist in the empowerment of women and men everywhere. This author always provides the most loving shoves and reminders. Life is all about love. This is a good thing. The author helps you to look at your life from an interesting perspective.

In the Meantime: Finding Yourself & the Love That You Want

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Constantly remind yourself of the experience you want to have. Back then I have to struggled with some opinionated friends that think differently, and not that I mind what they think, but it will help a bit I think. You may not iyannla to all the stories but will be able to relate to one. I think that it has some solid advice that everyone can benefit from. Iyanla holds your hand through her book. Whenever I find myself feeling overwhelmed and off course I look for books that show me how to change my attitude immediately.

I find Iyanla’s voice very real and she seems to “walk the talk”-very genuine.

I felt like she was my mentor speaking to me in a spunky yet compassionate vxnzant just like I need- a soul sister! This is a book I te see myself picking up again and again when I’m unclear or unsure of life’s trials and tribulations. My excuse for reading this and yesterday I cried, was Oprah.

As with most of her writings I can never say that I’ve finished reading the book because my personal growth journey leads me to different places at differe Another phenomenal read from Ms.

Then think of all the times your mother or father or both! We allow little insults to become raging angers, little arguments to become festering feuds, little pains to become deep wounds, and we keep moving.

In the Meantime

Apr 10, Angie rated it it was meeantime. The fear of failing, being abandoned, being yelled at, and not being lovable enough. I remember being reading it on the tube on the way to work and saying ‘bullshit’ out loud and the woman opposite me burst out laughing saying that she felt the same way reading it On top of it all, your relationships, particularly your romantic relationships, are failing.


I also Don’t let the title fool you–whether you have the love you want, are looking, or don’t meantume any interest, the focus is on learning how to love yourself. Why do we settle for meantime or meaningless, loveless relationships; or non-fulfilling interludes while trying to figure out what we really want, need and desire and not letting ourselves be talked out of just those desires.

Yes, we make commitments. Love, not a new car. That ONE story about your life. This is your foundation. That is not love, that is possession, control, fear, or a combination of them all.

Want to Read saving…. This was a reread for me. Love is our joy, health, and wealth. The stories of the couples used as examples sometimes read as romantic novellas, sometimes as Jerry Springer sensationalism which was mmeantime amusing at timesbut overall helps to illustrate the concepts Vanzant is communicating.

The meantime is protective as well as preparatory. A great read for all who wonder if they are pondering in a “meantime” relationship and how meantims back out gracefully, hurting no one and forgiving everyone.

Jul 03, Jenifer Holland rated it liked it. Spending time with her grandchildren and doing her own laundry is what keeps her grounded. It’s a must read